Well last time around I started writing a blog,I left it half way through simply coz it was not good enough :P. I am seriously wondering if this one would be posted ..haha.But now I have something serious to talk about.So this one should be interesting..hmm lets see
There is a problem i face very often.I get let down by trivial things.Last day i wrote a stupid exam.Now i rather not go into the details of it cuz i like to keep it precise and to the point.Having a bit of confidence in my caliber I thought i would do pretty decently.But it turned out to be a total disaster.So there i was sitting completely blank after seeing my dismal performance and wondering...Where did I go wrong ? What could I have done better ? How did this happen to me ? And above all why does this happen to me?.My mind was flooded with all such questions for which I don't have an answer.I would rather put it this way .Sick questions like these do not deserve an answer :|
I would like to generalize certain things here.Many of us live to achieve our ambitions.Our career,our education,our family they all mean a great deal to us.Many of us give too much importance to the final goal,the destination that seldom does it come to our minds that its the journey that is more important.And by realizing this and strongly believing in this , not only do we start enjoying our journey but also we start to appreciate the smaller but important things in life.
Having said all this now, I feel amazed why this thought didn't come to my mind earlier right after i was done with the exam.How could i let something as minute as a 2.5 hour exam tell me how good I was.The truth as a matter of fact is that nothing abstract can ever evaluate something as concrete as a persons individuality and his ability.But at the same time, theres a fine line between 1.Realizing what went wrong in ones past and correcting the mistakes and 2.Brooding over what went wrong and never thinking constructively and 3. Completely ignoring ones mistakes..So next time when someone or some stupid exam tells me "Sorry sir you are not good enough ".I would say it out loud. " SORRY I DON'T BUY IT ".
kollaam.. a nice frank post for a first blog... poratte... iniyum poratte... :)
ReplyDeletenice 1 da :) carry on :)
ReplyDeleteSo next time when someone or some stupid exam tells me "Sorry sir you are not good enough ".I would say it out loud. " SORRY I DON'T BUY IT ".
ReplyDeletehehe.. would you?? i mean to ask, would you say it out loud.. :D
@Mr MJ : Yes I would say it out loud single every time this happens.If not screaming , definitely loud so that the same question doesn't arouse again in my mind
ReplyDeleteGood one dude..
ReplyDeleteGood one...indeed true for most of us..
ReplyDelete